In a surprising turn of events, popular Kenyan socialite Vera Sidika has taken to Instagram to share a video of herself jamming to her ex-boyfriend Otile Brown’s hit song, “Chaguo La Moyo.” The video quickly went viral, sparking a lively debate among her fans and followers.
While some viewers found the video amusing and saw it as a sign that Vera still appreciates Otile’s music, others took a more critical stance. Some commenters suggested that Vera was mocking Otile for the loss of his unborn child, which caused a rift in their relationship. On the other hand, some fans defended Vera, arguing that she was simply enjoying the song and that Otile’s personal life should not be a factor in her musical preferences.
This debate highlights the complexities of breakups and relationships. People have different ways of dealing with the aftermath of a breakup, including how they interact with their ex’s music. Some may find it challenging to listen to their former partner’s songs, while others are able to separate the art from the artist. Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide how they feel about their ex’s music and whether they choose to continue listening to it.
The online discussion surrounding Vera Sidika’s video featured a range of interesting comments from fans:
@sirr_wildheart: “She enjoys his music. The art is independent from the person. Many of us still listen to R Kelly despite what he did.”
@adhys_leah: “She’s mocking him for losing his unborn child. That’s low.”
@badiahon.clement: “True friends are always the best investment of a lifetime. Breaking up doesn’t have to result in animosity.”
This incident serves as a reminder that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to handling a breakup. People may need time to heal before they can comfortably engage with their ex’s music or other reminders of the past.
Interestingly, just a couple of days before Vera’s video, she publicly expressed her sympathy for Otile Brown’s loss. During a Q&A session with her fans, Vera confirmed that she was aware of Otile’s tragedy and offered her sincere condolences. She expressed her empathy towards him, acknowledging the pain he must be going through.
“I really feel sorry for him. Sincere condolences to him,” she said.
Otile had announced the heartbreaking news of the loss of his unborn child on his Instagram. In a series of emotional posts, he shared his deep sorrow and expressed his acceptance of what had happened.
“Our baby didn’t make it… I guess it’s not my favourite year no more. It is all good… God, you know I never ask or question You. All I do is smile and stay positive,” wrote Otile.
“God, you know I never ask questions. All I do is smile and stay positive.” he added
The singer attributed the loss partly to the negative energy on social media and confessed that he regretted sharing the news in the first place.
“At first, I hated social media because she hated me and made me believe that it’s all the social media bad energy… and I kind of believed it because, for someone who never advertises his life that much on social media, this one time I was excited and randomly decided to post about it while my heart was telling me not to. It had me feeling guilty,” confessed Otile
Vera and Otile had a tumultuous relationship in the past, which ended on a sour note. However, Vera’s display of sympathy demonstrates that she can separate personal feelings from the unfortunate events in Otile’s life.
In another development, Vera Sidika recently made a strong comeback on Instagram. She posted a provocative photo of herself in black lingerie, sparking both criticism and support from her followers. Vera responded to the controversy by stating that she’s not targeting anyone with her photo and is simply living her life and having fun. She made it clear that she doesn’t aim to be a role model for anyone and that her lifestyle may not align with societal expectations.
“But honestly I don’t want to be anyone’s role model. That responsibility is too huge and my lifestyle is against society’s morals.” explained Vera Sidika
Vera Sidika’s return to social media has generated mixed reactions, but she remains unfazed by the negativity. She’s determined to continue living life on her own terms and not let the opinions of others affect her.
All in all, Vera Sidika’s video jamming to Otile Brown’s song has sparked a debate among her fans. While some find it amusing, others have raised concerns about potential mockery. Nevertheless, Vera expressed her sympathy towards Otile after the loss of his unborn child, showing her ability to separate personal differences from tragic events. As she makes a comeback on Instagram, Vera remains defiant and unapologetic about her lifestyle choices.