Arthur Mandela Nyongesa popularly known as Xtian Dela has subtly responded to his mother’s allegations that he neglected his family members.
While weeping bitterly, Naomi Nyongesa who is an actress at Hullabalo Estate disclosed that her celebrity son blocked her on all communication channels.
Nyongesa added that she had no hard feelings towards her son or the woman he married and all she wanted is for him to reach out and pay a visit to her.
The actress who is also a bishop indicated that Dela’s disappearing stints started in 2019 and every time she pleaded with him to pay a visit he would always offer excuses.
Soon after the actress came out to decry that her son had neglected his family members, Dela gave a hint that pinpointed what may have led to their unfortunate fallout.
Among the behaviours he shared through a blog link were manipulation, enmeshment, neglect, blame-shifting, gaslighting, constant criticism, and lack of boundaries.
In an interview, the bitter widow claimed that the media personality had distanced himself from her and his siblings for the last four years.
According to the bishop, the blogger has blocked access to his kids from everyone including his former friends and family members.
The bishop also alleged that Xtian changed his ways after he changed his lifestyle since he was brought up in a Christian home and that’s the main cause of the fallout.
“Mimii nataka mtoto wangu, kwa sababu ni miaka nne inanda tano, nataka tu mtoto wangu akuje alivyo, nitamkubali stamkataa, ata sitaongea, akikuja nitafurahi sana (I just want my child, it has been four years heading to five now, I want my child to come to me as he is, I will accept him, and when he comes back I will be very elated)”, the bitter actress stated.
Additionally, the actress underscored that Dela should reconsider his choice of cutting off himself since he is a parent too.